A Life Worth Following - Tommy Dyck

Paul’s pastoral instruction in 1 Timothy 3:1–7 is reframed as a call to character that protects the gathered people of God. Leadership is not a résumé of skills but the visible fruit of a transformed life; the one who watches over others must be the same person in private as in public. Above reproach means authenticity and ongoing repentance, not sinless perfection. Faithfulness in marriage, sober-minded steadiness, self-control, and an orderly life are marks that shape a leader’s capacity to carry weight without crushing the flock. Hospitality is described as a disciplined practice of loving strangers and opening one’s home and resources for the mission of the body. The ability to teach is not merely pulpit skill but the capacity to feed and guide people in everyday, one-on-one moments.

Warnings against being a recent convert, a lover of money, or controlled by substances or habits expose how fragile ministry becomes when rooted in pride or dependence rather than grace. Gentleness and a lack of quarrelsomeness show that strength in leadership is patient and winsomely persuasive rather than domineering. The true test of a shepherd is domestic witness: a man’s household is the place his life cannot be staged, where dignity, repentance, and consistent love must be evident. Reputation with outsiders functions as a final practical barometer—if life only looks godly among insiders, it has not been formed fully enough to bear public trust.

The exhortation lands as a practical spiritual diagnostic: leadership protects the church and the church’s health in turn demands leaders whose inner life is reconciled to Christ. The summons is not merely to attain office but to grow into a life that others can safely follow—steady under pressure, humble under correction, hospitable in practice, and marked by Christlike love that shows itself in the home and before the world. Prayer and mutual accountability are urged for leaders so that the church is shepherded by humble, holy servants who reflect the Shepherd who bought the flock with his blood.